Opening into Love – the myth of the ‘him shaped void’.

Opening into Love – the myth of the ‘him shaped void’.

Letting go of an experience/partner/community/friendship that has opened you hugely. The shut down that can happen afterwards. How David Deida’s theory of the ‘him shaped void’ can be disempowering and what to do about it.

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Revolutionary Break-up Time

Revolutionary Break-up Time

Today I had one of the most beautiful and incredible conversations of my life.   After many greater-than-us-forces finally came into alignment, my recently no-longer man and I had the Skype break up call.   I have never experienced a break up so loving, clean, in integrity and honest like that before. I have never experienced finishing a conversation like that and being filled with MORE love and joy for that person than maybe even...

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Healing after Breakup Town

Healing after Breakup Town

Break-ups hurt like hell. Especially when you still love your ex partner, or if you haven’t come to a resolution around the ‘whys’, aka the lessons of the relationship.   This is a process I created sometime ago, borrowing from many influences (John Demartini to name one). At the time I was going through the most painful and traumatic breakup of my life. I thought I had met ‘The One’ (see my post here to read...

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