Why I Love My Jade Wand (or ‘spiritual’ sex toys and why to use them).

Why I Love My Jade Wand (or ‘spiritual’ sex toys and why to use them).

Did you know that your yoni (vagina) is the seat of your consciousness as a female bodied human? Did you know that having lots of yummy, penetrative orgasms is vital for your health, happiness and wellbeing? That it literally opens up your creativity, power, your happiness, connection to self and ability to reach higher states of consciousness?

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My Vagina the Temple

My Vagina the Temple

Your vagina is the most receptive part of your body. Whoever you take in there, know that you are receiving them to the depth of your core. Do you want that energy fruiting in your life? Because what you take in, will travel to your womb (energetically and physically) and grow in your life around you…

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The REAL Power of the Pussy

The REAL Power of the Pussy

Doing different vagina practices is said to help release trauma, tension, heal emotional wounding stored in there, as well as make your yoni super toned, and able to do all kinds of awesome sexy moves… But this really awesome payoff can actually become a limit if we don’t understand how much greater the impact could be on our lives and the lives of those around us.

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If you don’t love my raw, you don’t get my pussy.

If you don’t love my raw, you don’t get my pussy.

  The other day I shared with a lover (who’s in Boulder) that I was thinking about cutting all my hair off in a symbolic ritual for the end of my 28 day power journey. (cat’s out of the bag. I wasn’t going to say anything, but here we are).   Using hair, blood or semen (or any bodily stuff) in magick and ritual is super powerful. As a woman whose hair is really, let’s be honest, one of her main features… in a...

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Healing Sexual Trauma

Healing Sexual Trauma

Sexual wounding. Seriously the MOST INSIDIOUS THING in the way it affects your life. In the way it inhibits people’s sense of self worth. Their ability to stand in their power. Their ability to have healthy relationships (and not keep calling in the abuse pattern in different varieties time and again). Their ability to have a good relationship/abundant relationship with money (as to the psyche, money is a symbol of value and power. If you’re inhibited in these, then it’s going to affect your relationship to la doshola $$$).

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Women and Body Image – A Brief History of the Masculine and Feminine

Women and Body Image – A Brief History of the Masculine and Feminine

Boulder, Colorado, is home to what is perhaps the world’s largest live in collection of triathletes, rock climbers, parkour nerds and yogi fanatics. When I lived in Brighton, in England at the age of 18, the thing you did when you wanted to meet up with a friend was you went to the pub and drank a few pints. Here when you meet up with a friend, you going hiking on one of the many trails that lead out of (or through) the city. Otherwise you go to the local organic store and chat over a raw smoothie of some sort. The culture of being in your body, eating well and being active is HUGE here.

Perhaps this is why many of the women I speak to talk about feeling huge pressure to be a certain way in their body. To be zero fat. To have the triathlete body. To be a tiny weeny leany machine-y. The thing is though…

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