The Five Questions To Revolutionise Your Love Life

The Five Questions To Revolutionise Your Love Life

Back in 2013 I had a massive realization. I realized that I wanted to be in relationship.
It was a hard thing for me to admit at the time because I was so used to being strong Ms Independence. Ms “I don’t need you or anyone else for that matter, thanks very much!”
Having that realization was incredibly powerful for me, not just because it opened me up to vulnerability within myself, but because…

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Healing Sexual Trauma

Healing Sexual Trauma

Sexual wounding. Seriously the MOST INSIDIOUS THING in the way it affects your life. In the way it inhibits people’s sense of self worth. Their ability to stand in their power. Their ability to have healthy relationships (and not keep calling in the abuse pattern in different varieties time and again). Their ability to have a good relationship/abundant relationship with money (as to the psyche, money is a symbol of value and power. If you’re inhibited in these, then it’s going to affect your relationship to la doshola $$$).

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Being to much – the exact way to find your people.

Being to much – the exact way to find your people.

THIS is what happens when you stop playing small, stop trying to not be ‘too intense/too big’ etc etc etc.
It’s what happens when you really give in the full expression of who you are.
I am going to do this for the rest of my life! So grateful to the woman who wrote me the message telling me she couldn’t stand what I’m about!

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Why you keep calling in douchebags

Why you keep calling in douchebags

Anyone who has been following me for any period of time will be well aware of my rather dramatic love life.

Courtney’s romantic world is populated with extremely blissful highs (spontaneous peak state highs) and incredibly dramatic, soul wrenching lows. When I fall in love, I go there, hook line and sinker. Everything inside me, even when I’m doing my best to hold back and practice ‘going slow’ (what the fuck does that mean to an Aries, I’d like to know?!) knows what it means to love as though nothing else mattered.

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Emotional Patterns and the Motifs to Create Meaning

Emotional Patterns and the Motifs to Create Meaning

Meaning.

So I asked a bunch of people via FB “Why do we create meaning” and got a number of different responses. One was ‘to avoid the mystery’ which I think is definitely partly true. Some responses were things like ‘because it’s fun’. etc.

In some ways meaning ‘doesn’t exist’ and yet it clearly does. We give everything meaning, for those who observe synchronisity the universe is constantly giving you signals or ‘meaning’ which then give the receiver purpose or direction…

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