The other day I shared with a lover (who’s in Boulder) that I was thinking about cutting all my hair off in a symbolic ritual for the end of my 28 day power journey. (cat’s out of the bag. I wasn’t going to say anything, but here we are). Using hair, blood or semen (or any bodily stuff) in magick and ritual is super powerful. As a woman whose hair is really, let’s be honest, one of her main features… in a culture that rewards women who are ‘pretty’ and scoffs at and ignores women who...read more
What turns on and off a Venus in Cancer person? How are they in relationship and what’s going to make them even more juiced, feel safe and open in the boudoir?
Watch this video to find out all the the saucy (and loving) details…
Back in 2013 I had a massive realization. I realized that I wanted to be in relationship.
It was a hard thing for me to admit at the time because I was so used to being strong Ms Independence. Ms “I don’t need you or anyone else for that matter, thanks very much!”
Having that realization was incredibly powerful for me, not just because it opened me up to vulnerability within myself, but because…
The vagina is the seat of the consciousness of every woman (and those who don’t identify as women and who were born with vaginas). Being aware of this and being connected to it brings you into your full power and consciousness and will also give you the power to call the men in your life into full presences as well (never hear yourself saying ‘men aren’t doing the work’ ever again!).read more
Being in our full expression. Channeling our complete magick. Offering our gifts fully to the world and becoming the governors of our own fate. Vishuddha – the throat chakra, isn’t really spoken about in the depth that it holds all that often. I certainly do NOT cover all of it in these 30 mins, but this video will give you huge insight into why perhaps you’re not fully expressing yourself and what full expression could give you…read more
In the Tantra world, women are told ‘surrender, surrender, surrender.’ Well, what if there’s a GOOD REASON why you’re not surrendering? What if there are qualifiers TO surrendering. Being told ‘you need to surrender’ is one of the things that often sparks shame in women. But if you are a feminine being, your nature IS TO SURRENDER, which means if you’re not doing that, there’s maybe a good reason.read more
Sexual wounding. Seriously the MOST INSIDIOUS THING in the way it affects your life. In the way it inhibits people’s sense of self worth. Their ability to stand in their power. Their ability to have healthy relationships (and not keep calling in the abuse pattern in different varieties time and again). Their ability to have a good relationship/abundant relationship with money (as to the psyche, money is a symbol of value and power. If you’re inhibited in these, then it’s going to affect your relationship to la doshola $$$).read more
All about how your Venus in Taurus affects your sexuality, pleasure and what you’ll love in a partner (or even just on a date!) Some important things I forgot to mention in this video. V in T can be possessive and jealous. The neck is a strong erogenous zone. Anal sex is really good for them as it helps them move their high amounts of earth energy up to the higher chakras during sex. Enjoy! Please leave your comments in the comments section below. I love hearing how this is relevant to you! ...read more
What turns on and off a Venus in Gemini person? How are they in relationship and what’s going to make them even more juiced in the boudoir? Including a 30 second Gemini fun dance intro from yours truly. 😉read more
Have you ever had the experience of being like ‘WTF just happened?!’ in your relating with someone? Yeah, you and everyone. Sometimes all you need to close a situation and move forwards is understanding. That can be hard if that person will no longer dialogue with you, or you choose to no longer dialogue with them, or maybe they’re someone you no longer have access to….read more